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EPISODE #120
TRENDING WITH TIMMERIE: EVERYTHING WILL CHANGE

People are fleeing California, and not because of the Coronavirus.  What can we learn about living more simply, staying within our means, and keeping family first?

Fr. Tim Grumbach joins Trending with Timmerie to discuss his experience as a priest unable to give the sacraments to the people, the good things we’ve seen come from the Covid-19 quarantine, and the things it may challenge us to do moving forward; and the ultimate sacrifice our priests are called to make.

 

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Originally broadcast on 3/29/20

EPISODE #119
TRENDING WITH TIMMERIE: THRIVING IN CRISIS AND KEEPING THE FAITH

A welcome surprise for long time listeners of Trending with Timmerie: Chris Mueller is back discussing how to thrive with the downtime, quality time, and close quarters we all face in-light of the Coronavirus.  He will share about keeping the faith in the midst of the unfathomable as his son Ben battles cancer.  Timmerie will discuss how we can be more courageous and faithful as access to the Mass and Communion decreases and fear increases.  She’ll discuss the importance of living in a state of grace and not taking God for granted.

 

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Originally broadcast on 3/22/20

EPISODE #118
TRENDING WITH TIMMERIE: LOVE IS BLIND, RELATIONSHIPS AND THE CATHOLIC VOTE

Joining Trending with Timmerie is Sister Helena Burns.  Together they discuss the Netflix show ‘Love is Blind’, dating, relationships, Theology of the Body, feminism, and prayer.

Timmerie also discusses the Catholic vote and whether Catholic voters have been ignored by the democrat party.

 

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Originally broadcast on 3/15/20

DONATING OUR TIME, TREASURE, AND TALENT TO OTHERS IS AN IMPORTANT PART OF LENT

During Lent, we are asked to focus more intently on “almsgiving,” which means donating money or goods to the poor and performing other acts of charity.  As one of the three pillars of Lenten practice, almsgiving is “a witness to fraternal charity” and “a work of justice pleasing to God.” – U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops 

 

As one of the three pillars of Lent, almsgiving – like prayer and fasting – should be part of our lives as Catholics and not merely an annual sacrifice.  

In his 2012 essay, “Introduction to Lent: Almsgiving,” author Mike Aquilina reminds us that Jesus declared almsgiving a necessary part of Christian life: “When you give alms, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by men,” notes Matthew 6:2-3. “But when you give alms, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.” 

Like fasting and prayer, almsgiving is a non-negotiable part of Lent. Planning ahead makes donating money part of our annual Lenten sacrifice. Christians traditionally use the Old Testament practice of tithing or giving one-tenth of their income to God – whether that means donating to our church, diocese, or to other Catholic organizations, such as St. Vincent de Paul.  

Many parishes offer additional opportunities for giving during Lent, through outright donations or opportunities to join together for simple meals or providing service to others. 

Indeed almsgiving, notes the website Aleteia.org, can take many forms. The site offers suggestions to embark on your Lenten mission of giving.  

Setting up a piggy bank reminds us that Lent is a season of sacrifice and service; giving up a weekly lunch out or a trip to Starbucks can add up. Seeking out a service project individually or with a group of friends can benefit local charities, such as homeless outreach or Habitat for Humanity. 

Charity begins at home, where we teach our children to give time, attention, and resources to others. But charity must not stop there, Aquilina writes, “because for Catholics ‘home’ is universal and our family is as big as the world.” Thus, we must dig deep and give generously, recognizing the dire needs of the individuals and families in our community. 

“It is a scandal, after all, for Christians to have closets overstuffed with clothing when there are families who are shivering because they can’t pay their heating bill,” he notes. “It is a scandal for Christians to be epidemically overweight when they have near neighbors who go to bed hungry.” 

We Americans enjoy creature comforts like central heat and air conditioning, electricity, medical care and more – but we often take these commodities for granted. Almsgiving may mean occasionally sacrificing one of these everyday luxuries to experience what our less-fortunate neighbors endure every day. 

We must give with the image of Jesus in our minds, Aquilina reminds us. As He gives Himself entirely to us in the Eucharist – body, soul, and divinity – we must give, too, everything that we have. 

“Whenever possible,” he writes, “our charity should also involve personal acts, not just automatic withdrawals from our bank account. Pope John Paul asked us to see, and be seen by, ‘the human face of poverty.’” 

FAMILY LENT

Lent begins with Ash Wednesday on February 26. Why not kick off Lent as a family this year?  

At first glance, it seems that Lent, the somber season when we prepare ourselves body and soul for the joy of the Easter resurrection, is a poor time for family togetherness. 

Still, committing to fast, pray, abstain from pleasure and make other sacrifices as a family unifies us in the common pursuit of holiness. 

 

Why is Lent Important? 

The 40 days of Lent symbolically link us to Jesus, who was tempted by the devil during His time praying in the desert.  

“By uniting ourselves with the mystery of Christ’s trial in the desert, we’re reminded that the 40 days of Lent are like our journey through the desert in this life,” writes Gary Michuta, an Ohio apologist, author and speaker. “If we remain faithful, following the new Moses, Jesus Christ, we too will enter into the true promised land of heaven.” 

 

Fasting and Abstinence 

Ash Wednesday and Good Friday are obligatory days of fasting and abstinence. In addition, Fridays during Lent are obligatory days of abstinence, according to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.  

Thus, meal planning is critical, with opportunities to create main dish alternatives to meat, adopt strategies to battle hunger pangs, and replace sugary desserts with healthy choices. 

 

Prayer and Worship 

Family focuses each family member on the purpose of Lent. Prayers needn’t be long or complicated. Pray for someone who’s ill, pray for world leaders, pray for Pope Francis, and pray for each other. 

Stations of the Cross are offered Fridays during Lent and provide a time for the family to gather together in prayer. Family members may want to attend daily Mass. Going to confession early in Lent is another time for family worship. Sign up to spend an hour with the Eucharist in Adoration. Commit to praying the rosary once a week. 

 

Abstinence and Sacrifice 

We think of abstinence as giving up chocolate or other luxuries, but abstinence comes in many forms: Turn off the television for a day, limit internet time, read a book about a saint’s life instead of a magazine – these actions ensure that God remains first in our minds.  

Lent is an opportunity to challenge and heal ourselves. We can ask forgiveness from one another, memorize a prayer, volunteer to serve the less fortunate. 

 

Almsgiving – and Other Giving 

Lent also is a great time for spring cleaning. Picking up after each other without complaining is a good lesson. Doing chores without being asked, and without expecting thanks, is another way we can sacrifice ourselves. 

Extra cleanup means we can gather gently used clothing and toys for a big donation to Goodwill. Collecting loose change guarantees a little extra giving on Lenten Sundays and money saved from meatless meals and fasting can be added. 

 

Creative Lenten Activities 

Making homemade pretzels or baking hot cross buns are just two ways family members can mark the season together.  

Taking care of our bodies is another way to acknowledge Lent, providing the perfect excuse for a family hike and the impetus to get up early for an exercise class. 

Whatever activities you pursue as a family will foster your Lenten spirit as we head toward Easter. 

 

Myriad Catholic websites offer ideas for families during Lent, including catholicexchange.com, catholicicing.com, reallifeathome.com, and ewtn.com. 

EPISODE #115
TRENDING WITH TIMMERIE: NON-MONOGAMY EXPLAINED & LENTEN PRACTICES

Don’t fall off your chair!  Michael Gasparro (Associate Marriage and Family Therapist) joins Trending with Timmerie to make sense of the “consensual non-monogamy” fad.  Have you heard of serial monogamy?  The’ll also discuss attraction and birth control as covered in the new Netflix series “Sex Explained”.  Don’t let Netflix be the sex educator of the culture.  Also, hear a therapist’s perspective on preparing for Lent and how you can intentionally prepare.

Where is the common ground on abortion? How can we use this to make others more pro-life?

 

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Originally broadcast on 2/16/20

EPISODE #114
TRENDING WITH TIMMERIE: THE SUPERBOWL AND WOMANHOOD

What is a woman?  Fr. Robert Spitzer of The Magis Center joins Trending with Timmerie to unpack the many gifts of femininity to dive deeper into the identity of women.

Hips don’t lie? Controversy has stirred over depictions of women during the Super Bowl halftime show featuring J. Lo and Shakira.  Listen for a discussion on everything from sex trafficking to empathy.  Conversations will cover beauty, virtue, children, marriage, productivity, feminism, eternity, the Women’s March, gender identity, objectification, finding balance, and an un-affirmed generation.

 

Links to resources mentioned:

Essays on Women https://smile.amazon.com/Essays-Woman-Collected-English-German/dp/0935216596/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=edith+stein&qid=1581035962&sr=8-3

 

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Originally broadcast on 2/9/20

EPISODE #113
TRENDING WITH TIMMERIE: A PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE

Do you want to live a purpose driven life?  Fr. Tim Grumbach joins us this week on Trending with Timmerie. They’re talking about:  how to live a purpose driven life, prayer, distraction, and the sacraments.  They’ll cover challenges to fertility/ infertility and how France is handling IVF for single persons, gender ideology, and the LGBTQ debate.  You’ll hear the best way to prevent STDs and the incredible story of Sister Clare Crockett who may be a modern day saint.

 

Links mentioned:

The book _Indistractable:_  https://www.amazon.com/Indistractable-Control-Your-Attention-Choose/dp/1526610205/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

 

Sr. Clare Crockett: _All or Nothing_ documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0LKZm2BqZo&feature=emb_logo

 

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Originally broadcast on 2/2/20

AUSTRALIAN CATHOLICS SEEK PRAYERS AS FIRES CONTINUE IN FOUR STATES

As some of the worst wildfires in Australian history rage across four states, thousands of people in affected areas in New South Wales and Victoria continue to be evacuated to safety. 

Soaring temperatures, often higher than 100 degrees Fahrenheit, and a protracted drought have contributed to an unprecedented national emergency which, by Christmas, had already seen more than 14.5 million acres of forest and rural land burned. 

Amid conditions regularly described as catastrophic, fires have continued to rage in hundreds of locations in Western Australia, New South Wales, South Australia and Victoria states for months. 

Marie Burton, a parishioner of Our Lady of Sorrows Church, in the New South Wales Diocese of Wagga, lives on a farm in Jingellic, near the border with Victoria border. In late December and early January, Jingellic was surrounded by fire twice. 

“We know so many Catholic people who are being affected. There’s a lot of suffering going on, and we’re continuing to pray,” Burton said in tears. 

“Twice our home was saved. On Monday evening — and again on Tuesday. 

“The fire came up over the hill but there was no stopping it. My husband was getting things out of the house, but he was told to just get out of there. 

“We didn’t know for 24 hours (what happened) but luckily, it was saved.” 

Burton has taken shelter with her sister’s family, the Darlows, including nephew Matthew Darlow, a member of the local brigade of the Rural Fire Service. The Darlows live at Lankeys Creek, approximately 12 miles north of Jingellic. While staying with her relatives, Burton has been cooking at a shelter to feed firefighters. 

“We just need to band together, get the fires out and support those who have lost their homes and livelihoods,” said Darlow. 

“We’re waiting on a change in wind that could affect things, and an increase in temperature, tonight or tomorrow,” said Darlow, who asked Catholics around the world to pray. 

“Offer up prayers for the people who’ve lost their lives and those who’ve lost their livelihoods so that they can rebuild as quickly as possible,” he said. “And pray particularly for widespread rain across the whole country.” 

Bishop Shane Mackinlay of Diocese of Sandhurst expressed concern about “the impact that fires have already had on communities and by the anxiety that the threat of fire is causing.” 

In a statement Jan. 3, he urged “political and community leaders to continue efforts to identify and respond to the underlying causes that have contributed to the heightened risks we are facing this summer, (and) we pray for those who lost their lives, and for the safe recovery of people who are missing.” 

The fires have been burning since August and have destroyed an area comparable to the combined region of the Netherlands and Belgium. 

By Jan. 3, thousands of people were given less than 48 hours to evacuate fire-ravaged coastal communities in New South Wales. With the heat forecast for 111 degrees Fahrenheit Jan. 4, the fires were expected to worsen. 

More than 2,500 buildings have been razed and at least 20 people — 16 from New South Wales, two from Victoria and two from South Australia — have died. Officials fear the toll could rise steeply, with Victorian emergency services saying 28 people are missing in the state. 

Smoke clouds, which can be seen from space, have reached New Zealand, nearly 2,500 miles away across the Tasman Sea. 

The Gippsland region in Victoria’s east has seen convoys of people escorted by police and emergency services personnel evacuating from towns such as Corryong and Walwa in Victoria’s Alpine country. 

Catholics such as the Burtons and Darlows say their faith is strong. 

“We have a very deep faith,” said Burton. “I put a scapular on the door and sprinkled the house with holy water, and we have statues in our home, including the Infant of Prague, and so I prayed — we prayed very hard, and asked other people to pray. 

“All of these people are amazing people, with an amazing Catholic faith, and we know God will protect them,” she said. “Every time we hear good news, we’re overjoyed that these people haven’t lost their homes. There is just miracle after miracle happening.” 

In his statement, Bishop Mackinlay applauded the heroism of firefighters — mainly volunteers — risking their lives for their country and community 

In Jingellic, a young volunteer firefighter, Sam McPaul, died Dec. 30 after a freak tornado caused by the fires flipped his 11-ton truck. His wife Megan, whom he married in May, is expecting their first child. 

Similar stories can be heard across the country. In Sydney, the Mass for Sydney firefighter Andrew O’Dwyer was due to be held in the Horsley Park Parish Jan. 7. 

O’Dwyer, 36, and fellow firefighter Geoffrey Keaton, 32, were killed Dec. 19 when a fallen tree caused their tanker to roll as they fought fires south of Sydney. 

The Order of Malta Australia announced Jan. 3 it would use money from its Natural Disaster Fund to provide emergency relief to those directly impacted. 

“We are exploring opportunities with our regional Hospitallers to provide some direct assistance, with our top priority currently to provide support to the thousands who have lost homes or are stranded,” said a statement from the order.  

PRAYERS FOR THE SICK

There is an old New Yorker cartoon that shows an angel bringing God a stack of petitions about wars, natural disasters and other calamities. God waves him off with a distracted, “Not now. I’m trying to help this guy make a free throw.” 

I’ve been thinking lately about prayers for the sick. My brother Kevin died of leukemia when he was 13. In those days, childhood leukemia was basically a death sentence. You lived 18 months and then you died. That was what happened with my brother. 

Mother and Dad took Kevin to Lourdes, France, the summer after he got sick. The pilgrimage did not cure his illness, but it helped him to bear it. He is surely in heaven today. And God worked a miracle through his brief life. 

Kevin was treated at Roswell Park Hospital in Buffalo, New York, about three hours from our home. He was sometimes there for weeks at a time, and Mother and Dad would stay at a hotel. But they noticed that some families, lacking the means to do that, slept in their cars or in hospital waiting rooms. 

When Kevin died, Mother and Dad bought a house across the street from the hospital and set up a 501(c)(3) organization to care for such patients and their families. The Kevin Guest House was the first hospital hospitality house in America. Since it opened in 1972, more than 50,000 people have stayed there. 

It became the inspiration for the Ronald McDonald Houses, begun two years later. Those have helped millions of families. 

I think God answered our prayers for Kevin. Not by intervening in the natural order of things — though he could have done that, as he did with Naaman the Syrian. Rather, his love made Kevin’s short life a grace for those who knew him and a gift for the countless sick people whose families can now afford to stay by their side. 

Of course, we siblings who survived Kevin live in constant dread of blood cancers whenever someone complains of swollen lymph nodes. And this summer, one of our daughters was diagnosed with Hodgkin lymphoma. She has been undergoing rounds of chemotherapy. And we have been assiduous about asking family and friends to pray for her. 

It seems to be working so far. The PET scan last week showed the cancer in remission, and we have been rejoicing in a hopeful way. 

Did God cure her? I’m not sure. But I am certain of one thing: From the time of her diagnosis, our daughter has been a model of Christian hope and courage. 

She has three daughters of her own. Her biggest challenge has been helping them manage their fears. When she told them the news, she said that God was going to keep them all really close to him and hold their hands through the ordeal. 

One of my sisters (the one closest in age to Kevin) saw the hand of God in all this. Think how important it is to us parents, she said, to raise our children in the faith. Think of the work we do to that end — praying, teaching, sharing the sacraments, sending them to Catholic school. What would you not give for the assurance of God’s help in this endeavor? 

Nothing our granddaughters will see in their young lives can equal the lesson in faith they are getting from this experience. The woman they love and admire most is showing them what God’s grace means to her. That is testimony they are bound to believe. It’s an answer to a prayer.